The Talking Stage Toolkit

The Scorecard

Ten questions, about five minutes. At the end you'll know how much this man has actually shown you, instead of how much you've been filling in.

Answer with your head, not your heart. Only count what he actually said or did. If you catch yourself thinking "well, he'd probably," that's a no. Probably means you're guessing, and you always guess in his favor.

How long y'all been talking

Real dates he has taken you on

First, one quick thing

The last thing he did that felt good

Pick the one that's freshest. We're going to run it through the rule before you answer anything else.

Question 1 of 10

Reading what you wrote

One second.

Before I score it

Here's what you told me

I read every answer against one rule: only what he actually did counts. If you think I got one wrong, change it. It's your situation.

Your evidence score

Out of ten

0/10

A man who's really interested gets easier to answer these about. Not harder.